So Montessori with my kids is very child directed. It’s often really hard to let go and let them choose what work they want to do but we have to trust their inner needs and processes. What you see in blogs is only the best parts. It’s usually skipping the difficult parts, the children being silly, the children being grumpy, the children lying on the floor and not getting up, the children making the Toob figures attack each other, the children throwing a material or insisting on doing it incorrectly. Here is a good moment with my 2 year old.
Here is a real moment with my 2 year old during the same work session.
I didn’t get a video of him trying to walk on them. He also tried to walk on the Brown Stairs. He may be a little young still so I’ll keep things light and I put them away when he’s not treating them with care.
Pumpkin 1 also was being difficult today. Wanting to do the Golden beads and then pretending she didn’t know the names of the numbers or just refusing to talk at all. It’s so frustrating as a parent teacher because you worry and work so hard and then you’re left trying to figure out why and you always feel like you’re failing somehow and that you have to prove yourself to everyone who may think you’re making the wrong decision. I’m not sure if the work was too easy for her or too difficult or she just wasn’t interested. I’m leaning towards it being too easy and am hoping when the wooden cubes and squares for the addition come in she’ll be challenged.
So, I hope this post makes you smile and breath a little easier when your kids are stressing you out.